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The Vibe: Speed Kills 💨

Writer's picture: Dustin ParkerDustin Parker


Happy Labor Day! I hope you all take the time to recharge and enjoy the day. After the break, it's time to accelerate—this week's edition of The Vibe will set the pace.


In the high-stakes arena of modern success, there's a silent killer stalking the dreams of the ambitious. It's not lack of talent, insufficient resources, or even fierce competition. It's the insidious comfort of delay, the seductive whisper of "not yet." While you're polishing your masterpiece, rehearsing your pitch, or waiting for the perfect moment, someone else is out there seizing your opportunity, stumbling through their mistakes, and emerging victorious.


Have you ever noticed how these victors seem to operate at a different tempo than the rest of us? They don't just move fast; they think, decide, and act with an urgency that borders on recklessness. It's as if they've taken that mythical pill from Limitless, accessing parts of their brain that allow them to process information and make decisions at superhuman speed. But here's the thing: they haven't found a magic drug. They've simply mastered the art of velocity.


I recently attended Tom Ferry's real estate conference, where this truth was hammered home. In today's world, the swift devour the slow. The most successful agents weren't the ones with decades of experience or the fanciest suits. They were the ones who could pivot on a dime, who treated each day like a series of rapid-fire experiments. They understood a fundamental principle that applies far beyond real estate: velocity isn't just an advantage—it's the only thing that matters.


But let's cut the B.S. You've heard this before, haven't you? "Move fast and break things." "Done is better than perfect." These platitudes litter the self-help landscape like confetti after a parade. So why aren't you moving faster? Why are you still clinging to the comforting illusion of over-preparation?


Here's the uncomfortable truth: your hesitation isn't prudence. It's fear masquerading as responsibility. It's the voice of mediocrity, whispering sweet nothings about "due diligence" and "proper planning." And while you're listening to that siren song, the bold and the brazen are out there shaping the world, living their "Limitless" potential not through a pill, but through relentless action.


Consider Jeff Bezos and his regret minimization framework. When faced with the decision to quit his cushy job and start Amazon, he didn't ask, "What if I fail?" He asked, "Will I regret not trying?" That's the mindset of someone who understands that in the grand casino of life, the house always wins if you don't play.


Or look at Sara Blakely, who built Spanx into a billion-dollar company without a business plan. She didn't wait to perfect her product or strategy. She jumped in, learned on the fly, and iterated relentlessly. While others were drafting five-year plans, she was building an empire.


But I can hear your objections already. "Haste makes waste," you say. "Look before you leap." These old saws have their place, but let me ask you this: When was the last time you heard someone say, "I'm so glad I waited years before starting my business" or "My greatest achievement came from careful, plodding planning"? You haven't, because those people don't exist. They're still waiting for the perfect moment while the world passes them by.


Let's get personal. How many ideas have you had that withered on the vine because you weren't "ready"? How many opportunities have slipped through your fingers because you needed "just a little more time"? Each moment of hesitation is a tiny death, a dream deferred that may never be resurrected.


Imagine you're at the base of a mountain. Your goal is at the summit. You have two choices: spend months planning the perfect route, gathering the best equipment, waiting for ideal weather. Or start climbing now, with what you have, learning as you go. Which approach do you think will not only get you to the top faster but also make you a better climber?


The truth is, action breeds clarity. The moment you start moving, the path becomes clearer. You encounter obstacles you never could have anticipated from the ground. You discover strengths you didn't know you had. And yes, you make mistakes. But each mistake is a lesson, each setback a chance to recalibrate. This is what the truly successful understand: velocity isn't just about moving fast. It's about learning fast, failing fast, and bouncing back faster.


But embracing velocity means embracing discomfort. It means being willing to launch before you feel ready. It means making decisions with imperfect information. It means being okay with the fact that you'll sometimes be wrong, publicly and painfully. And that's terrifying. Our brains are wired for caution, for careful deliberation. It's a survival instinct that served us well when predators lurked behind every bush. But in today's world, the biggest predator is irrelevance. And the only way to outrun it is to move faster than your fear.


So how do we cultivate this mindset? How do we train ourselves to prioritize velocity over the illusion of perfection?


  1. Start small, but start now. Set a timer for five minutes and make that decision you've been postponing. Write that email you've been drafting in your head for days. Make that phone call you've been dreading. Small actions build momentum.

  2. Create artificial deadlines. Our work expands to fill the time we allot to it. So give yourself less time. You'll be amazed at how much you can accomplish when you have no choice but to move quickly.

  3. Embrace the MVP—Minimum Viable Product. Whether it's a business idea, a creative project, or a personal goal, ask yourself: what's the simplest version of this that I can launch right now? Then launch it. Iterate later.

  4. Reframe failure. Every mistake, every setback, is data. It's information you didn't have before. Use it. Learn from it. Then move on, quickly.


Remember, in the race to success, it's not the biggest or the strongest who win. It's those who can adapt the fastest, who can learn the quickest, who can execute with the most velocity. The world doesn't reward perfection. It rewards action.


So let me ask you this: What are you waiting for? What idea, what project, what dream have you been sitting on, waiting for the perfect moment?


That moment is now. The clock is ticking. Every second you hesitate, someone else is out there, stumbling forward, making mistakes, and getting closer to the prize. The future doesn't belong to the perfectionists or the planners. It belongs to the fast, the bold, the ones who dare to act. The hesitant are already obsolete, relegated to watching from the sidelines as history unfolds without them.


Your "Limitless" potential isn't just waiting—it's screaming for release. So stop reading, stop planning, stop hesitating. Start doing. Now. Because in the time it took you to read this, someone else just lapped you in the race to the top.


Artificial Imagination 🖥️


Feast your eyes on this MidJourney masterpiece I authored up—a productivity paradise that would make even the most procrastination-prone person want to work! The sleek home office features a floating white desk against a dark wall, complemented by wooden shelves brimming with books. An iMac takes center stage, displaying a mesmerizing desert landscape. The caramel leather chair and sun-drenched wood floors add a touch of warmth and sophistication. It's the kind of space that makes you wonder: is it possible to be too inspired to actually get any work done?


This is not an actual photo, but one that was totally A.I. generated using a prompt that I created with MidJourney


Vibe Hack 📱


iOS 18's "Send Later" feature is your new texting superpower! Forget setting reminders or staying up late to send that perfect-timing message. Here's the magic: Update to iOS 18, compose a message, tap "+", then "More", choose "Send Later", pick your date and time, and hit send. Your iPhone becomes your personal message scheduler. Never miss wishing someone happy birthday at midnight again or sending a "good luck" text right before your friend's big interview. It's like time travel for your texts! With this trick, you'll look thoughtful and punctual without breaking a sweat. Welcome to the future of perfectly timed communication, where your messages arrive exactly when you want them to, even if you're fast asleep or in the middle of something else.


My Weekly Vibe


  • AI: Move over, Copilot! Cursor is the new kid on the block that's got developers buzzing. This AI-powered code editor is like having a genius programmer whispering in your ear. With features like smart code completion, natural language editing, and codebase-aware chat, Cursor is turning coding sessions into collaborative jams with your AI sidekick. The best part? It feels familiar, so you can import all your favorite extensions and themes. I recently stumbled upon a mind-blowing video of an 8-year-old using Cursor to whip up a Harry Potter app in 45 mins . Whether you're a seasoned dev or just starting out, Cursor might just be the productivity boost you've been dreaming of. Give it a spin and see if it doesn't make you feel like a coding superhero!


  • Podcast: If you're into mind-bending conversations about the unknown, you've got to check out Luis Elizondo's appearance on The Joe Rogan Experience. Elizondo, the former head of the Pentagon's Advanced Aerospace Threat Identification Program, dives deep into the world of UFOs (or as they're now called, Unidentified Anomalous Phenomena). From historical documents to advanced tech and the implications of manipulating gravity, this episode is a wild ride through the fringes of what we know about our universe. Even if you're a skeptic, Elizondo's insights into government secrecy and his call for transparency might just make you look up at the night sky with fresh eyes. It's the perfect listen for your next late-night stargazing adventure or road trip!


  • Scent: As a self-proclaimed smell nerd, I couldn't resist checking out Bath & Body Works' new "Football Season" Wallflowers fragrance. It's like they've bottled the essence of fall Saturdays—all warm, woodsy, and crisp. It's got me pondering the olfactory connection between memory and emotion. How wild is it that a whiff of this stuff can transport you straight to the tailgate? I've got mine warming up the home office, and I swear my productivity has a bit more hustle to it. Maybe it's just the placebo effect, but hey—if it works, it works!


  • Show: If you haven't dived into Netflix's Life on Our Planet yet, you're missing out on a mind-blowing journey through time. This Emmy-nominated series, narrated by the legendary Morgan Freeman, takes us on a 4-billion-year odyssey of life on Earth. The episode The First Frontier is particularly fascinating, exploring how life thrived in the primordial seas long before land was habitable. With stunning visuals and cutting-edge CGI, it's like a time machine for your living room. Whether you're a science buff or just someone who appreciates the wonders of nature, this show will leave you in awe of the resilience and diversity of life on our blue marble. It's the perfect blend of education and entertainment—just be prepared for your mind to be blown and your perspective on life to be forever changed!


Life On Our Planet | cred: Netflix


Weekly Muse


"Greatness is not in where we stand, but in what direction we are moving. We must sail sometimes with the wind and sometimes against it—but sail we must, and not drift, nor lie at anchor." – Oliver Wendell Holmes Sr.


Real Estate


From colonial land grants to digital listings, the story of real estate in America is as dynamic and complex as the nation itself. It's a tale that mirrors our country's growth, reflects our societal changes, and often drives our economy. Whether you're a first-time homebuyer, a seasoned investor, or simply curious about how we've come to view property in America, understanding this history is crucial. It reveals not just how we've bought and sold land over the centuries, but how we've shaped our communities, built wealth, and sometimes perpetuated inequalities. Let's embark on a journey through time, exploring how the business of property has evolved, and consider where it might be headed. This is the story of American real estate—a saga of opportunity, innovation, and transformation.


Colonial Era and Early Republic (1600s-1700s): In colonial America, land ownership was the primary source of wealth and status. The crown or colonial governments often granted large tracts of land to individuals or companies. The concept of "real estate" as we know it today was in its infancy. Property typically changed hands through direct transactions, inheritances, or land grants.


The Land Ordinance of 1785 marked a pivotal moment. It established a systematic approach to surveying and selling the vast Western territories acquired after the Revolutionary War. This act created the basis for organized real estate dealings and set the stage for America's westward expansion.


Westward Expansion and Land Rushes (1800s): The 19th century saw dramatic changes in how Americans acquired and valued land. The Louisiana Purchase in 1803 doubled the size of the young nation, opening up vast new territories. The Homestead Act of 1862 allowed settlers to claim 160 acres of public land for free if they lived on it and improved it for five years.


This period also saw the rise of land speculation and the infamous "land rushes," where settlers raced to claim newly opened territories. These events shaped the distribution of land ownership and the development of new states.


The Birth of the Real Estate Profession (Late 1800s-Early 1900s): As cities grew and land transactions became more complex, a new profession emerged: the real estate broker. These early agents were often generalists, handling various aspects of property law, finance, and sales. They relied heavily on personal networks and local knowledge to facilitate deals.


The turn of the 20th century saw efforts to professionalize and standardize the industry. Local real estate boards began forming in major cities, establishing standards and practices for their members. In 1908, the National Association of Real Estate Exchanges (later renamed the National Association of REALTORS® or NAR) was founded, marking a significant step towards national organization.


The term "REALTOR®" was coined in 1916, becoming a trademarked designation for members who adhered to a code of ethics. This move towards professionalization coincided with America's urban growth and the rise of the middle class, creating new opportunities for the industry.


The Great Depression and New Deal Era (1930s-1940s): The stock market crash of 1929 and the subsequent Great Depression had a profound impact on real estate. Property values plummeted, and many Americans lost their homes to foreclosure. In response, the federal government implemented several programs that would shape the real estate landscape for decades to come.


The Federal Housing Administration (FHA), created in 1934, revolutionized home financing by insuring long-term, fixed-rate mortgages. This made homeownership accessible to a much broader segment of the population. The creation of Fannie Mae in 1938 further supported the mortgage market by buying FHA-insured loans from lenders, freeing up capital for more lending.


Post-War Boom and Suburbanization (1950s-1960s): The post-World War II era ushered in a golden age for American real estate. The G.I. Bill provided low-cost mortgages to returning veterans, fueling a suburban housing boom. This period saw the rise of large-scale suburban developments like Levittown, which became a model for communities across the country.


Real estate agents became key figures in the American Dream, guiding millions through the home-buying process. The industry expanded rapidly, with new business models like franchise brokerages emerging.


However, this era also saw the entrenchment of discriminatory practices. "Redlining," the practice of denying services to residents of certain areas based on racial or ethnic composition, was widespread and often involved the complicity of real estate professionals. These practices shaped the demographic makeup of neighborhoods and contributed to long-lasting economic disparities.


Civil Rights and Fair Housing (1960s-1970s): The Civil Rights movement brought attention to housing discrimination. The Fair Housing Act of 1968 marked a turning point, officially outlawing discrimination in housing transactions based on race, color, religion, or national origin. While implementation and enforcement have been ongoing challenges, this legislation represented a crucial step towards equality in real estate.


Technological Revolution (1980s-2000s): The late 20th century brought technological changes that would reshape the industry. The Multiple Listing Service (MLS), which had existed in various forms since the 1800s, became computerized in the 1980s, revolutionizing how agents shared property information.


The advent of the internet in the 1990s further transformed the landscape. Consumers gained unprecedented access to listing information, challenging the traditional gatekeeping role of agents. Websites like Realtor.com (launched in 1996) and later Zillow (2006) changed how people searched for homes.


21st Century Disruption (2000s-Present): The new millennium has seen continued technological disruption in real estate. Online platforms have altered how people search for and value properties. The rise of "iBuyers"—companies that use algorithms to make instant offers on homes—represents a potential shift in the traditional broker-mediated model of home sales.


The 2008 financial crisis, largely triggered by the subprime mortgage market collapse, led to stricter lending regulations and a temporary cooling of the housing market. However, the subsequent recovery saw the emergence of new trends, including a renewed interest in urban living among millennials and the rise of short-term rental platforms like Airbnb.


Recent developments, such as the 2024 settlement between NAR and home sellers, promise further changes to industry practices. This agreement aims to increase transparency in broker compensation and eliminate certain rules that critics argued stifled competition and misled consumers.


Looking Ahead: As we move further into the 21st century, the real estate industry faces both challenges and opportunities. Climate change is altering where and how we build. The COVID-19 pandemic has accelerated trends towards remote work, potentially reshaping housing preferences. Affordable housing remains a pressing issue in many urban areas.


Technological innovations continue to emerge, from virtual reality home tours to blockchain-based property transactions. The industry is also grappling with questions of sustainability, equity, and the changing needs of new generations of homebuyers.


The story of real estate in America is far from over. It's a tale of constant evolution, reflecting broader social, economic, and technological changes. As we look to the future, the industry will undoubtedly continue to adapt, facing new challenges and seizing new opportunities in the ever-changing landscape of property and home.



In the spirit of the political season, let’s have some fun with this one—in the voice of Donald Trump… “Listen up, folks, because this is the most spectacular mansion you’ve ever seen—believe me, nobody does it bigger or better! We’re talking 11,500 square feet of pure, unadulterated luxury in the heart of McLean, Virginia—only the best location for the best people. Five bedrooms, eight bathrooms—yes, EIGHT, because when you’re winning this big, you need to celebrate in style! The media room? It’s so massive, it makes Hollywood look like a joke. This isn’t just a house, it’s a monument to success, the kind only I can deliver. Trust me, you’re not going to find anything better—anywhere!” (courtesy of Yeonas & Shafran Real Estate, LLC *Disclaimer: this is a very lovely listing and clearly just a bit of satire, so loosen up and enjoy *


Interesting Find


In its early years, Amazon was losing so much money that at one point, it was on track to run out of cash within 90 days. Jeff Bezos even had to borrow $300,000 from his parents, warning them that there was a 70% chance they would lose their money. Today, Amazon’s annual revenue is higher than the GDP of over 130 countries, including entire nations like New Zealand and Qatar. In fact, Bezos was so desperate to keep the company afloat that he famously drove packages to the post office himself in the early days. Despite these humble beginnings, Amazon now generates enough revenue every 19 seconds to cover the entire initial investment his parents made.


This is not an actual photo, but one that was totally A.I. generated using a prompt that I created with MidJourney

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